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Saturday, September 25, 2010

Banned Books Week Guest Author Post By Carrie Ryan

To officially kick off the start of Banned Book, October 25th-October 2nd, I thought it would be a little more powerful hearing thoughts and insights from authors about Banned Books. I invited a few authors to come on Mundie Moms and do just that. I thank each of them for taking the time to write up their posts!

Thank you Carrie Ryan for sending us this beautifully written, and empowering article to be used for our Mundie Moms Banned Book Week.

Won't someone please think of the children?

I'm so proud and pleased to live in a world where young girls are never sexually abused. Where women in high school or middle school aren't raped. Where teen boys never contemplate suicide (or, heaven forfend, actually attempt and accomplish it). I'm blessed to live in a world where there's no bullying, no cyberbullying, no eating disorders or emotional abuse. Where girls don't stick fingers down their throats and slide knives or blades over their skin intentionally. Where teachers don't sleep with students, where fathers don't sleep with daughters, where no one under consenting age has sex, thinks about sex, comes close to having sex, gets pregnant, gets a disease, has an abortion or has a child when they're still in their tweens. How lovely that all girls and boys are virgins throughout middle and high school. That nary a drop of alcohol or a whiff of drugs passes their lips, their noses, their veins.

Surely each child at every school is well loved, well nourished, well cared for. Well clothed and well mannered with bright futures ahead that don't involve peer pressure and binge drinking and drugs and gangs.

Clearly none of those terrible things ever happens in the lives of REAL teens. So why would we ever need books about such horrid and odious happenings? Why would we allow such texts to enter the hallowed halls of our children's schools? Or, worse, to actually be offered on a list of recommended reading? Or even more awful to contemplate, used in a classroom? Forget that such books may have won awards or received starred reviews or been included list after list. Forget that teens have written to authors in tears, in gratitude, in awe that some of those books have changed their lives. That some of those books have saved them.

We don't need those books anymore! Therefore, we don't need them in our classes, in our schools or in our libraries. Hasn't anyone ever wondered what would happen if we let our perfect, pure, untouched and untarnished teen minds read such smut? They might contemplate drugs or sex or suicide. Clearly, all it would take is one page - one paragraph - of Laurie Halse Anderson's bookWintergirls to change even the healthiest girl anorexic! No girl today would ever have such thoughts otherwise!

Won't someone please think of the children? What are we teaching them with these books?

Unless... unless we've somehow failed. Unless we missed something. Unless there are teens out there that are in trouble. That have faced obstacles that their parents don't know about. Unless there are teens out there with secrets -- secret pains and secret fears -- that they can't take to their mother or father or sister or priest or teacher. Maybe they're ashamed. Maybe they're afraid.

Maybe they need to be shown that they're not alone. That you can survive abuse. That you can overcome bullying and peer pressure. That your friends could be facing these issues. That you can find help. Or even, what happens when you don't.

Maybe we need to have more faith in teens that reading a book won't brainwash them. That maybe instead it will expand their horizons. And maybe as the adults of the world that's our job - to show them the world and be there to answer questions and support them.

I get it. I understand that its easier to keep teens in the dark. It's easier to believe that teens aren't dealing with these difficult issues. What parents want to introduce their precious child to all the bad things in this world? What father wants to explain what rape is?

But I need to make this clear, and this comes from my experience and from my friends experiences and from the teens I've talked to: this stuff happens. And it happens to teens and tweens far younger than any of us would ever want to contemplate. They deal with these issues whether we want them to or not. This is life and life can really suck and it can be messy and dangerous and sad. And hiding from it doesn't make it go away.

So whenever someone screams "Won't someone please think of the children" and then they propose banning books or removing them from the classroom or the library, I want to ask them what they think it accomplishes. Because not talking about the difficult issues in this world doesn't make them not exist. Not letting teens read about them doesn't mean teens are somehow not going to face them.

We're not protecting anyone by keeping them ignorant. And banning books or pretending this stuff doesn't happen is the height of ignorance.

Thank you to the authors who write about these difficult topics and to those who fight to keep them in schools.
*This article was given to us to use for Banned Book Week from Carrie Ryan*
You can read the article on Carrie's site here http://tinyurl.com/2dwyxls
Carrie Ryan is the author of The Forest of Hands and Teeth, The Dead Tossed Waves and the soon to be released The Dark and Hollow Places. You find out more about Carrie and her books here http://www.carrieryan.com/

7 comments:

  1. That is so true, Carrie...as parents we cannot be afraid that books will brainwash our kids. In fact, it's the opposite, it may make them THINK before they act on something that's stupid and impulsive. Loved what you said -- thank you so much!!

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  2. Powerfully put. Brilliant.

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  3. This post makes me want to stand up and cheer. We must think of the children! Carrie's right, there is not world without all those terrible things. Everyone must have a voice!

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  4. amazing post. beautifully written and very very raw

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  5. I LOVE this post! It's so empowering. Yes, the world in which we live is not the perfect, pure world many would like to pretend it is and by removing books that deal with the raw, brutal, horrible things that our kids are dealing with, only hurts them worse. If they don't have someone or some book to turn to, where do they go? Books are every empowering and it's amazing that just one book can save the lives of many tweens and teens!

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  6. I've got tears in my eyes from reading this. Books saved my life. I faced some terrible things in childhood and beyond, and don't know what I would have done--and would do now--without reading. When people threaten our freedom to read, I believe not only do they deprive kids, they kill them. This may sound extremist. It may be. Yet my experience as an abuse survivor says otherwise. I'd be dead without books. And instead of not surviving, I'm 40 years old. I'm alive, and I read.

    I take great interest in the children's authors of today because of my past. And I'm incredibly impressed. So many of these authors, like my childhood heroes Judy Blume and Paul Zindel, don't shirk their duties to write the truth and write from the heart. Carrie Ryan is one of these authors. It would be nice to think we don't live in a world with death, pain, lies, betrayal, and other issues she brings up in THE FOREST OF HANDS AND TEETH. Instead, she thinks of the children, of kids like me, and writes not to please censors, but to save lives.

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  7. Schuyler- Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! You're a reason why these wonderful authors write what they do. I'm so glad books saved you. You're a testament as to why it's important to never deprive a child of books. You'll be an inspiration to many others.

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